Is it possible for two people to drift so far apart that by time you look for that other person…you can’t even recognize them anymore.  One has everything planned out, pre-planned if you will and knows what they want and how they’re going to get it. The other see’s nothing but negativity and doesn’t care to move beyond obstacles that they set for themselves. The planner tries to show a lighter side to the darkness, but the other can’t refuses to move forward with life. The person that plans is now carrying alot of dead weight and bad feelings.

You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make them drink. I’m using this quote as a way to describe what I have been trying to do. You push and push and push and the stuborn ass doesn’t move a foot. This time…energy wasted could also be put into other things that the person pushing could be doing. Everyone wants their friends and family to do well, but my god you get to the point where you say “fuck it” when they don’t want to help themselves. It’s hard enough to carry your own diaper around, but then you try to carry someone else as well?! I can’t be this uplifting beam of light anymore for someone who clearly doesn’t care about me and cares even less about themself. Call it tough love, call it a slap to the face but…I’m done. I’m done.

People who sit around feeling sorry for themselves should actually TRY to take some time out of their day to improve what is bothering them. You can’t change the world in one day, but in one day you could get started making positive changes. Life is what you make it, and if you want to lay in bed all day and complain about why everything in your life is wrong be my guest. Just don’t expect me to hold your hand and whisper “positive” somethings in your ear. You make your bed you….yeah, I went there. It’s time for a friend to grow the hell up.